[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.23.4″ _module_preset=”default” da_disable_devices=”off|off|off” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}” da_is_popup=”off” da_exit_intent=”off” da_has_close=”on” da_alt_close=”off” da_dark_close=”off” da_not_modal=”on” da_is_singular=”off” da_with_loader=”off” da_has_shadow=”on”][et_pb_row admin_label=”row” _builder_version=”4.16″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.16″ custom_padding=”|||” global_colors_info=”{}” custom_padding__hover=”|||”][et_pb_heading title=”I’m A St. George, UT Therapist – Nice To Meet You” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font=”|700|||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance you’re second-guessing something. Maybe a conversation left you feeling confused, invisible, or like you’re constantly walking on eggshells. Maybe you’ve asked yourself, “Am I overreacting? Did I make that up? Why do I feel so unsure all the time?” These questions are the quiet red flags that something deeper might be going on.
Let’s talk about gaslighting. Because it’s not just a buzzword. It’s a real, subtle, and deeply disorienting form of emotional harm that can leave even the most grounded woman doubting herself.[/et_pb_text][et_pb_button button_url=”https://guidedwellnesscounselingut.com/contact/” button_text=”JUMP TO OUR CONTACT PAGE” button_alignment=”center” module_class=”postButton” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” custom_button=”on” button_text_color=”#FFFFFF” button_bg_color=”#35736F” button_border_radius=”21px” custom_margin=”20px||20px||true|false” button_text_size_tablet=”14px” button_text_size_phone=”8px” button_text_size_last_edited=”on|phone” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_button][et_pb_image src=”https://guidedwellnesscounselingut.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/preview_image-4-scaled.jpg” alt=”holding a phone” title_text=”preview_image” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_image][et_pb_heading title=”What Exactly Is Gaslighting? Is It Happening To Me?” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font=”|700|||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]Gaslighting is a tactic used to make you question your own reality. What’s the point of that? Well, if you are in a place of doubt, it gives the other person an opportunity to be in power and in control.
It often sounds like:
- “That never happened. You’re imagining things.”
- “You’re so forgetful.”
- “Why can’t you just move on?”
- “You’re too sensitive.”
- “You always twist my words.”
Over time, these phrases chip away at your confidence, making you feel like your memories, experiences, or emotions aren’t trustworthy. That internal whisper that says, “Something isn’t right,” becomes harder to hear.[/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Phitradesign Handwritten||||||||” header_2_font=”Phitradesign Handwritten||||||||” header_2_line_height=”1.5em” global_colors_info=”{}”]
If you constantly feel like you need to apologize, explain, or defend your feelings, gaslighting may be at play.
[/et_pb_text][et_pb_heading title=”Can Someone Gaslight Me Without Realizing They’re Doing It?” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font=”|700|||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]Yes. While some people use gaslighting intentionally to manipulate or control, others may do it unconsciously as a way to avoid accountability or discomfort. Regardless of the intent, the impact on you is the same: confusion, self-doubt, and emotional exhaustion. Therapy can help you untangle your experiences, rebuild your self-trust, and get clear about what’s healthy and what’s not.
Something else to consider is the role you may be playing in enabling the behavior. Now, no one deserves the craziness and pain of gaslighting or other forms of emotional abuse. And, many of the women recovering from gaslighting also recognize they were socialized to be pleasing and avoid conflict, even when something didn’t feel right. They prioritized serving others to an extreme, to a place where they forgot to ask themselves, “What do I think and feel? What do I want and need?” If this resonates with you, it’s important to revisit how the gaslighting was enabled so you don’t repeat old patterns of people-pleasing in future relationships.[/et_pb_text][et_pb_heading title=”How Is Gaslighting Different From Just Having A Disagreement Or Misunderstanding?” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font=”|700|||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]Disagreements are a normal part of relationships. Healthy disagreements involve two people who can listen, validate, and move toward understanding, even if they don’t see eye to eye. Gaslighting, on the other hand, dismisses your experience entirely. It’s not about working through differences—it’s about rewriting your version of events so you feel off-balance and unsure. One is rooted in mutual respect. The other is not.[/et_pb_text][et_pb_heading title=”Everyday Examples Of Gaslighting In Romantic Relationships” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font=”|700|||||||” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]
- You bring up something that bothered you, and your partner responds with, “You’re so dramatic. I was just joking.”
- You recall a specific situation, and they insist it happened differently, even when you know you’re right.
- They consistently make you feel guilty for setting boundaries, saying no, or needing time alone.
- You mention a future event or discussion, and they insist you never mentioned it before, and become annoyed with your constant forgetfulness.
Gaslighting doesn’t have to be loud, aggressive, or obvious. It’s often quiet, subtle, and repetitive—leaving you to question whether the problem is you.[/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https://guidedwellnesscounselingut.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/preview_image-1-2-scaled.jpg” alt=”woman holding a mug” title_text=”preview_image (1)” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_image][et_pb_heading title=”Can Gaslighting Happen In Friendships, Workplaces, Or With Family Too?” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font=”|700|||||||” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]Absolutely. A friend who repeatedly denies your feelings, a boss who blames you for their mistakes, a parent who rewrites history to make you the “difficult one” — these are all forms of gaslighting. No environment is immune to it, and recognizing it is the first powerful step toward reclaiming your clarity and peace of mind.
There are many institutions and families in which gaslighting was experienced as the inability to ask questions or have doubts. Families or institutions where it’s not okay to ask about history, changes in practices or policies, or feelings of doubt or insecurity may be engaging in gaslighting. They may shame, guilt, or blame you for not believing in them or trusting them. The truth is – you have every right to ask any questions that help you feel safe and secure. All humans need safety and security. Denying you this is the crazy making of gaslighting behavior.[/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” text_font=”Phitradesign Handwritten||||||||” header_2_font=”Phitradesign Handwritten||||||||” header_2_line_height=”1.5em” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]
You have every right to ask any questions that help you feel safe and secure. All humans need safety and security.
[/et_pb_text][et_pb_heading title=”Therapy In St. George, UT Can Help You Trust Yourself Again.” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” title_level=”h2″ title_font=”|700|||||||” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_heading][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” locked=”off” global_colors_info=”{}”]At Guided Wellness Counseling in St. George, UT, we work with women who are ready to get clarity, set healthy boundaries, and stop second-guessing themselves. Whether gaslighting happened in a relationship, a job, or your family, we’re here to help you make sense of it and move forward with strength.
We go deeper than surface-level advice. We’re here for get-to-the-root-of-it healing. Together, we’ll help you:
- Rebuild trust in your own thoughts and feelings
- Understand patterns that no longer serve you
- Regain a sense of stability and control
- Feel more grounded in your day-to-day life
- Regulate your nervous system to reduce feeling “triggered” and overwhelmed
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To schedule your consultation, visit our booking page and complete our quick contact form. You’ll see a menu of available days and times for your 15-minute phone consultation, as soon as tomorrow or at your convenience.
Feeling more like yourself again is possible—and we’re here when you’re ready.[/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https://guidedwellnesscounselingut.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/preview_image-2-2-scaled.jpg” alt=”looking out at red rocks” title_text=”preview_image (2)” _builder_version=”4.27.4″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][/et_pb_image][/et_pb_column][/et_pb_row][/et_pb_section]